"I am pregnant for another man because of a long absence of my husband"
I am a 27 years old Cameroonian. I married Franck-Olivier three years ago and we had a child who is two years old. When we got married, my husband worked at the shipyard in Douala and he did not have a good salary.
While working at the shipyard, my husband established relationships with some expatriates in his place of duty. These relationships have paved the way for a good job that allows him to have a very good salary. My husband travels regularly to work at sea. He can spend 3 to 5 months there.
This loneliness in which I have been for some time led me to commit the irreparable. I slept with my ex-boyfriend with whom I kept in touch and today I am pregnant for him.
This situation puts me in distress. Some of my friends advise I do an abortion but I do not want to put my life in danger. I feel I might die while aborting.
Before my husband traveled, I was not pregnant and I can not pin it on him. If he finds out on his return that I am pregnant he will know that he is not the father. Please, I'm really stuck, I do not know what I'm going to do. I really need your advice.
I know I did wrong but just help advice me. I really need to do something. Please help me.
I am a 27 years old Cameroonian. I married Franck-Olivier three years ago and we had a child who is two years old. When we got married, my husband worked at the shipyard in Douala and he did not have a good salary.
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| Lenzia: My confession. |
While working at the shipyard, my husband established relationships with some expatriates in his place of duty. These relationships have paved the way for a good job that allows him to have a very good salary. My husband travels regularly to work at sea. He can spend 3 to 5 months there.
This loneliness in which I have been for some time led me to commit the irreparable. I slept with my ex-boyfriend with whom I kept in touch and today I am pregnant for him.
This situation puts me in distress. Some of my friends advise I do an abortion but I do not want to put my life in danger. I feel I might die while aborting.
Before my husband traveled, I was not pregnant and I can not pin it on him. If he finds out on his return that I am pregnant he will know that he is not the father. Please, I'm really stuck, I do not know what I'm going to do. I really need your advice.
I know I did wrong but just help advice me. I really need to do something. Please help me.